Find Your Love
Bila Anda tidak mencintai pelajaran Anda, maka cintailah orang-orang yang belajar di sana. Rasakan kegembiraan dari pembelajaran itu. Dan, pembelajaran itu pun akan menjadi sesuatu yang menggembirakan.
Bila Anda tak bisa mencintai rakan-rakan belajar Anda, maka cintailah suasana dan tempat Anda belajar. Ini mendorong Anda untuk gairah pergi ke tempat belajar dan untuk melakukan tugas-tugas dengan lebih baik lagi.
Bila Anda tidak juga bisa melakukannya, cintai setiap pengalaman pulang dan pergi ke tempat belajar Anda. Perjalanan yang menyenangkan menjadikan tujuan tampak menyenangkan juga.
Namun, bila Anda tak menemukan kesenangan di sana, maka cintailah apa pun yang bisa Anda cintai dari tempat Anda belajar: tempat parking, pak guard, cicak di atas dinding, atau gumpalan awan dari balik jendela. Apa saja.
Bila Anda tak menemukan apa yang bisa Anda cintai dari tempat Anda belajar, maka mengapa Anda ada di situ?
P/S: Tiada lagi alasan bagi Anda untuk tetap bertahan. Cepat pergi dan carilah apa yang Anda cintai, lalu belajarlah di sana. Hidup hanya sekali. Tak ada yang lebih indah selain melakukan dengan rasa cinta yang tulus. {n_0}
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Saturday, February 20, 2010
40 TIPS FOR A BETTER LIFE
1. Take a 20-40 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's.Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in factories.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. GOD heals everything.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
30. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
31. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
32. The best is yet to come.
33. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
34. Do the right thing!
35. Call your family often.
36. Your inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
37. Each day give something good to others.
38. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
39. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
40. Don't try to be others, just be your best self.
1. Take a 20-40 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's.Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in factories.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. GOD heals everything.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
30. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
31. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
32. The best is yet to come.
33. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
34. Do the right thing!
35. Call your family often.
36. Your inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
37. Each day give something good to others.
38. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
39. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
40. Don't try to be others, just be your best self.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
~Perjalanan Hidup Ini~
Perjalanan hidup ini,
Penuh onak duri,
Berliku penuh ranjau cabaran..
perjalanan hidup ini,
Untuk mencari keredhaan-Mu ilahi..
Bukan sebagai mimpi,
Tapi sebuah realiti..
perjalan hidup ini,
Mengajarku erti ketabahan..
Suka tak semestinya tawa..
Duka tak semestinya air mata..
Di dalam perjalanan meniti hidup ini,
Aku tanamkan dalam diri,
Yang aku hidup bukan selamanya..
Yang manusia itu selalu lupa bahawa,
Perjalanan hidup ini pasti akan berakhir..
Ke syurga?
Ke neraka?
Segalanya..
Kita yang tentukan..
Dengan sikap kita..
Perlakuan kita..
Di muka bumi Allah(S.W.T) ini..
Perjalanan hidup ini,
Penuh onak duri,
Berliku penuh ranjau cabaran..
perjalanan hidup ini,
Untuk mencari keredhaan-Mu ilahi..
Bukan sebagai mimpi,
Tapi sebuah realiti..
perjalan hidup ini,
Mengajarku erti ketabahan..
Suka tak semestinya tawa..
Duka tak semestinya air mata..
Di dalam perjalanan meniti hidup ini,
Aku tanamkan dalam diri,
Yang aku hidup bukan selamanya..
Yang manusia itu selalu lupa bahawa,
Perjalanan hidup ini pasti akan berakhir..
Ke syurga?
Ke neraka?
Segalanya..
Kita yang tentukan..
Dengan sikap kita..
Perlakuan kita..
Di muka bumi Allah(S.W.T) ini..
Wanita & Rama-Rama.
Lihatlah rama-rama, ia cantik. Apabila pandangan kita dihiasi rama-rama, kita menjadi suka dan ceria. Hampir semua orang akan tersenyum melihat rama-rama. Ia mengindahkan alam dan menyempurnakan sekuntum bunga. Seindah mana pun bunga tanpa rama-rama mahu hinggap di situ, tentu ada sesuatu yang tidak kena.
Cubalah tangkap dan pegang rama-rama itu dengan sayapnya. Lihat apa yang melekat di jari anda,warna dan corak rama-rama itu telah berpindah ke jari-jari anda. Kemudian lepaskan kembali, ia terbang tapi lebih terbuai oleh angin. Siapa pun yang akan menangkapnya kembali tidak tertarik padanya lagi. Harganya telah tiada untuk dikagumi, dan disimpan mahu diawetkan.
Rama-rama ibarat wanita. Ia indah untuk dipegang tetapi nilainya cepat turun setiap kali ada tangan- tangan yang tidak wajar hinggap pada tubuhnya. Memang fizikalnya tiada apa-apa yang kurang, tapi harga diri dan maruah telah mula tercemar. Begitulah wanita. Ia bagaikan rama-rama yang terbang membawa corak-corak indah, apabila corak-corak itu telah pudar ia tidak dipedulikan lagi. Harga rama-rama terletak pada warna dan coraknya; harga wanita terletak pada apakah tubuhnya masih tulen tatkala dia didampingi oleh suaminya.
Rama-rama terpaksa berjuang untuk memulakan hidupnya. Dia terpaksa membebaskan diri daripada kepompong. Bukan mudah untuk keluar daripada kepompong yang mengikat itu. Sedangkan sepanjang berada di dalam kepompong tiada siapa pedulikannya, malah tatkala bergelar ulat ia lebih dibenci.
Sulitnya untuk akhirnya bergelar rama-rama. Terpaksa melalui kitaran dan evolusi bentuk. Daripada sesuatu yang menjijikan akhirnya bertukar menjadi sesuatu yang amat menyenangkan. Rama-rama adalah contoh terbaik wanita untuk sedar betapa bernilainya kehidupan mereka. Sewaktu anda dipuja, usah terlalu mabuk sebaliknya kenang-kenang kehidupan serba susah sebelum itu. Sewaktu anda digoda, dihambat dan dirayu usah terlalu mudah menyerah sebab ingatlah mereka yang bersusah payah memastikan anda dapat bangkit sebagai manusia sempurna hari ini. Anda tidak muncul sendiri, sebaliknya anda adalah lambang pengorbanan ibu bapa.
Usah jadi rama-rama yang di dalam bingkai gambar, indah dipandang tetapi diri sendiri menanggung beban. Hiduplah dengan bebas dan terjemahkan kebebasan itu kepada nilai-nilai murni yang perlu dipertahankan. Hak anda ialah memelihara kehormatan. Selama mana anda memelihara kehormatan dan maruah diri anda berada pada terbaik, sebaik sahaja anda tidak peduli kepada siapa maruah itu hendak diberikan, anda sudah kehilangan masa depan. postman-butterfly Kalaulah rama-rama tahu dia cantik dan sentiasa memukau penglihatan manusia, dia tentu tidak mudah-mudah terbang ke sana sini. Sebab setiap kali ia mengibarkan sayapnya, ia sentiasa terdedah pada bahaya. Namun rama-rama tidak pernah tahu dia itu indah dan sentiasa menjadi sasaran manusia. Jika anda tidak pernah tahu kewanitaan anda itu adalah sasaran terpenting sang penceroboh, anda ibarat rama-rama yang tidak sedar diintai bahaya.
Mahalkan harga diri anda. Semakin sukar anda dimiliki semakin mahal nilai anda di sisi lelaki. Lelaki perosak hanya inginkan kuasa memiliki tetapi tidak mahu setia apalagi memelihara dan melindungi anda. Usah terperangkap ke dalam tangan yang hanya akan meleraikan warna-warna anda. Setelah warna-warna itu hilang anda dibiarkan. Jadilah wanita angun yang punya nilai dan maruah diri, anda akan lebih dihormati. Nilai anda bukan terletak pada berapa ramai lelaki yang ingin memiliki anda tetapi berapa ramai yang benar-benar sanggup menyintai anda. Cinta itu terjemahan pada kasih sayang dan belaian sayang penuh ikhlas. Selama mana anda belum menemuinya anggaplah diri anda masih berhak terbang bebas bagaikan sang rama-rama.
Jadilah rama-rama yang mengindahkan alam, jadilah wanita yang membanggakan semua orang=)
Lihatlah rama-rama, ia cantik. Apabila pandangan kita dihiasi rama-rama, kita menjadi suka dan ceria. Hampir semua orang akan tersenyum melihat rama-rama. Ia mengindahkan alam dan menyempurnakan sekuntum bunga. Seindah mana pun bunga tanpa rama-rama mahu hinggap di situ, tentu ada sesuatu yang tidak kena.
Cubalah tangkap dan pegang rama-rama itu dengan sayapnya. Lihat apa yang melekat di jari anda,warna dan corak rama-rama itu telah berpindah ke jari-jari anda. Kemudian lepaskan kembali, ia terbang tapi lebih terbuai oleh angin. Siapa pun yang akan menangkapnya kembali tidak tertarik padanya lagi. Harganya telah tiada untuk dikagumi, dan disimpan mahu diawetkan.
Rama-rama ibarat wanita. Ia indah untuk dipegang tetapi nilainya cepat turun setiap kali ada tangan- tangan yang tidak wajar hinggap pada tubuhnya. Memang fizikalnya tiada apa-apa yang kurang, tapi harga diri dan maruah telah mula tercemar. Begitulah wanita. Ia bagaikan rama-rama yang terbang membawa corak-corak indah, apabila corak-corak itu telah pudar ia tidak dipedulikan lagi. Harga rama-rama terletak pada warna dan coraknya; harga wanita terletak pada apakah tubuhnya masih tulen tatkala dia didampingi oleh suaminya.
Rama-rama terpaksa berjuang untuk memulakan hidupnya. Dia terpaksa membebaskan diri daripada kepompong. Bukan mudah untuk keluar daripada kepompong yang mengikat itu. Sedangkan sepanjang berada di dalam kepompong tiada siapa pedulikannya, malah tatkala bergelar ulat ia lebih dibenci.
Sulitnya untuk akhirnya bergelar rama-rama. Terpaksa melalui kitaran dan evolusi bentuk. Daripada sesuatu yang menjijikan akhirnya bertukar menjadi sesuatu yang amat menyenangkan. Rama-rama adalah contoh terbaik wanita untuk sedar betapa bernilainya kehidupan mereka. Sewaktu anda dipuja, usah terlalu mabuk sebaliknya kenang-kenang kehidupan serba susah sebelum itu. Sewaktu anda digoda, dihambat dan dirayu usah terlalu mudah menyerah sebab ingatlah mereka yang bersusah payah memastikan anda dapat bangkit sebagai manusia sempurna hari ini. Anda tidak muncul sendiri, sebaliknya anda adalah lambang pengorbanan ibu bapa.
Usah jadi rama-rama yang di dalam bingkai gambar, indah dipandang tetapi diri sendiri menanggung beban. Hiduplah dengan bebas dan terjemahkan kebebasan itu kepada nilai-nilai murni yang perlu dipertahankan. Hak anda ialah memelihara kehormatan. Selama mana anda memelihara kehormatan dan maruah diri anda berada pada terbaik, sebaik sahaja anda tidak peduli kepada siapa maruah itu hendak diberikan, anda sudah kehilangan masa depan. postman-butterfly Kalaulah rama-rama tahu dia cantik dan sentiasa memukau penglihatan manusia, dia tentu tidak mudah-mudah terbang ke sana sini. Sebab setiap kali ia mengibarkan sayapnya, ia sentiasa terdedah pada bahaya. Namun rama-rama tidak pernah tahu dia itu indah dan sentiasa menjadi sasaran manusia. Jika anda tidak pernah tahu kewanitaan anda itu adalah sasaran terpenting sang penceroboh, anda ibarat rama-rama yang tidak sedar diintai bahaya.
Mahalkan harga diri anda. Semakin sukar anda dimiliki semakin mahal nilai anda di sisi lelaki. Lelaki perosak hanya inginkan kuasa memiliki tetapi tidak mahu setia apalagi memelihara dan melindungi anda. Usah terperangkap ke dalam tangan yang hanya akan meleraikan warna-warna anda. Setelah warna-warna itu hilang anda dibiarkan. Jadilah wanita angun yang punya nilai dan maruah diri, anda akan lebih dihormati. Nilai anda bukan terletak pada berapa ramai lelaki yang ingin memiliki anda tetapi berapa ramai yang benar-benar sanggup menyintai anda. Cinta itu terjemahan pada kasih sayang dan belaian sayang penuh ikhlas. Selama mana anda belum menemuinya anggaplah diri anda masih berhak terbang bebas bagaikan sang rama-rama.
Jadilah rama-rama yang mengindahkan alam, jadilah wanita yang membanggakan semua orang=)
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
All i ever wanted was to see you smiling,
to make you mine & together with you forever, just you and me.
I want make to be a part of you, and together do all the things we could do.
Everyday, you're in my head & make me want to see you in my eyes.
You the one in my heart, and loving & missing you is all I ever wanted in my life~
~Dongeng Tentang CINTA~
Dalam dongeng manusia, dikisahkan tentang wujudnya sebuah pulau yang dihuni oleh semua jenis perasaan termasuklah bahagia, duka, hikmah dan cinta. Pada suatu hari, sampailah satu berita yang menggemparkan semua perasaan, iaitu pulau yang mereka duduki akan tenggelam.
Maka bergegaslah mereka menyiapkan sampan untuk menyelamatkan diri masing-masing kecuali cinta. Khabar yang disangka cerita kosong, benar-benar berlaku. Hujan lebat selama beberapa hari tanpa henti menyebabkan paras lautan semakin tinggi sehingga menenggelamkan pulau-pulau disekitar.
Pulau itu tidak terkecuali, mujurlah mereka dapat meninggalkan tempat itu dengan sampan masing-masing. Hanya cinta sahaja tetap setia di pulau itu. Dia terus bertahan sehinggalah ke saat akhir. Pulau itu mulai tenggelam sedikit demi sedikit, cinta tidak terdaya lalu memohon bantuan. Ketika itulah kekayaan dengan sampannya yang agak mewah melalui pulau yang semakin ditenggelami lautan itu, cinta bercadang memohon pertolongan kekayaan..
"kekayaan, bolehkah kau bawa aku bersama dengan sampan mewahmu itu?"
"tidak! Terlalu banyak emas dan perak dalam sampanku ini, tiada tempat untukmu.."
Lalu kekayaan meninggalkan cinta keseorangan.. Kemudian cinta meminta bantuan si takbur, sampannya yang cantik berada tidak jauh darinya,
"'takbur, bantulah aku. Aku hampir tenggelam.."
sedih dan sayu bunyinya..
"Ah, aku tidak boleh menolongmu, nanti basah dan rosak sampanku!"
jawabnya bengis tanpa sedikit pun rasa simpati..
Duka pula baru sahaja meninggalkan pulau itu, segera cinta merayu supaya dibantu..
"wahai duka, izinkan aku pergi bersamamu.."
pintanya dengan penuh harapan..
"Oh cinta, aku terlalu sedih, biarkan aku seorang diri.."
balasnya sendiri..
Malah si bahagia turut melihat keadaan cinta keseorangan di pulau itu, tetapi dia sangat gembira kerana berada jauh daripadanya.
Tidak lama kemudian, dalam keadaan keseorangan, kedengaran satu suara,
"mari wahai cinta, Aku akan bawamu bersamaku.."
suara yang agak berumur memanggilnya. Tidak tergambar kesyukuran cinta apabila melihat ada orang yang sudi membantunya. Terlupa pula bertanya ke mana hala tujunya sehinggalah mereka sampai ke daratan berhampiran. Menyedari dia tidak mengenali org tua yang membantunya, cinta segera menemui si hikmah, lalu bertanyalah dia,
"hikmah, siapakah yang membantuku keluar dari pulau itu??"
"dialah masa"
balas si hikmah..
"masa??"
terkejut cinta dengan jawapan hikmah.. Dia terus bertanya lagi,
"mengapa masa sudi membantuku?"
Hikmah dengan iringan senyuman menjawab kembali,
"kerana hanya perjalanan masa yang mampu memahami betapa nilainya CINTA"
=)
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
~The Story of Salt Coffee~
He met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due to being polite, she promised.
They sat at a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought,
please; let me go home.. suddenly he asked the waiter. "Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.
She asked him curiously; why he had this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, and I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.
That was his true feelings, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can express his homesickness must be a man who loves his home, cares about home, and has responsibility for his home. Then she too started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, a beautiful beginning of their story.
They continued to date. She found out that he actually was the man who met all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they lived a happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.
After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest please forgives me, forgive the lie of my life. This was the only lie I ever said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time
we dated? I was so nervous that time, I actually wanted some sugar, but I said salt instead. It was too embarrasing for me to take back so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times but I was too afraid to do so as I had promised never to lie to you about anything.. Now I'm dying, I'm afraid of nothing so I am telling you the truth: I don't like salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. I have had to take the salty coffee for my whole life with you and never had to feel sorry for it because I did it for you.
Having you with me is the biggest happiness in my entire life. If I could live a second time, I'd still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even if I if had to drink salty coffee again". Her tears made the letter totally wet.
One day someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied.
Love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but to understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but to HOLD ON. Don't ever leave the one you love for.
They sat at a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought,
please; let me go home.. suddenly he asked the waiter. "Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it.
She asked him curiously; why he had this hobby? He replied: "when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, and I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much I miss my parents who are still living there". While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.
That was his true feelings, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can express his homesickness must be a man who loves his home, cares about home, and has responsibility for his home. Then she too started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, a beautiful beginning of their story.
They continued to date. She found out that he actually was the man who met all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they lived a happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.
After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: "My dearest please forgives me, forgive the lie of my life. This was the only lie I ever said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time
we dated? I was so nervous that time, I actually wanted some sugar, but I said salt instead. It was too embarrasing for me to take back so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times but I was too afraid to do so as I had promised never to lie to you about anything.. Now I'm dying, I'm afraid of nothing so I am telling you the truth: I don't like salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. I have had to take the salty coffee for my whole life with you and never had to feel sorry for it because I did it for you.
Having you with me is the biggest happiness in my entire life. If I could live a second time, I'd still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even if I if had to drink salty coffee again". Her tears made the letter totally wet.
One day someone asked her: what's the taste of salty coffee? It's sweet. She replied.
Love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but to understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but to HOLD ON. Don't ever leave the one you love for.
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